Patience isn’t Passive: Barnabas Piper



How do I wait … well?

Barnabas Piper wrote this blog a few months ago and at the time, it was really speaking into a situation our family was going through.  We were waiting to see if some change was going to be taking place and all we were needing to do was remain patient, but it was an active patience, which Barnabas explains well.  God had it all under control and in the end, when what we were waiting for happened, it happened very quickly.

It is also very appropriate given the Advent season we are in right now.
Advent is about preparing, anticipating and waiting.
We are preparing, anticipating and waiting for Christmas, where we remember and celebrate the promise of Christ coming into the world in human form (aka we celebrate His birthday!) and we are active in our preparations.
But it is also a good time to remind us that we need to be continually preparing, anticipating and waiting for the promise of Christ returning in all His glory!

We are not passive in our preparation, we are not passive in our anticipation and we are not passive in our waiting.

With Barnabas Piper’s permission, I re-post his blog, in case it is what you need to hear/read right now:

Patience Isn’t Passive

Aug 17, 2016 07:53 am

I am an impatient person. Waiting is a nuisance at best. This presents a challenge when I run into those situations when wisdom says “wait on the Lord.” In fact, “wait on the Lord” sounds very much like “sit down, shut up, and see what happens” which is in dangerous proximity to passivity and boredom, a state of being that is hair-tearingly tedious.

But my understanding of “waiting” has been sorely lacking. The description above is hollow. Waiting is an experience full of careful thought and action, at least if one is doing it well. If your waiting experience is one of sitting by until something happens then you’re doing it wrong.

To wait is not to set aside other responsibilities aside. We work at current jobs while waiting for the call back about the one we interviewed for. We work at godly singleness while waiting for a spouse then work at loving someone while waiting for them to reciprocate. Most of all we work at those things to which Christ has called us while waiting for Him to return. So waiting for one thing is busy with others.

Waiting is in an impatient business leading stress leading to surliness, or worse. And so while we wait we work at having the right attitude. Of all the activities waiting entails, this is the most difficult. We hold fast to hope, cling to promises, and look ahead to the fulfillment of our desires. As we wait we ought to channel our desires to forward-thinking confidence rather than misplacing them toward those around us which only leads to disappointment to garnish our impatience. In all of this, waiting on the Lord differs from all other waiting because he elicits the confidence nothing else can.

Think of waiting for a train. When you wait you may be still, standing or sitting, but you are not passive. You are watching, listening. Your eyes follow the parallel lines of the tracks into the distance looking for the train to come chugging in. You listen for the roar of the engine, the clanking of the cars, and the tones of the train’s whistle. Even as your body rests on the platform your senses are alert and your mind active. This is what it should be like to wait on the Lord too. Sometimes it is stillness, but in the stillness there is alertness and heightened sensitivity.

Finally, sometimes waiting is searching. Often waiting for opportunities is looking for them. Think of hailing a taxi. Sometimes you walk from a quiet street to a busy one where the taxi line forms. Even when you get there you must wait to intersect with the cab that is available, the right opportunity. So waiting should always be a blend of active body, right attitude, and acute awareness of opportunities and provisions God provides. The only waiting that is truly passive is that which leaves the waiter angst ridden and impatient.

This column originally appeared at WORLD News Group’s website ( Reprinted with permission. Copyright © 2012 WORLD News Group. All rights reserved.

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Musical Monday: Mary Did You Know

I discovered this song three or four years ago and it very quickly became one of my all-time favourite Christmas songs.

I love the perspective it’s sung from.
Did Mary really know WHO she gave birth to, Who she was nursing, Who was in her arms and in her care?

This was originally written by Mark Lowry, and there are many great versions out there, but I love this one from Jeremy Camp.

Mary did you know that your baby boy is Lord of all creation?
Mary did you know that your baby boy will one day rule the nations?
Did you know that your baby boy is heaven’s perfect Lamb?
This sleeping child you’re holding is the great I Am!

Musical Monday: Hello My Name Is…

What is your name?  Does it define who you are?

My name is Rachael and it means ‘naive/innocent, like a lamb’.

Now I love my birth name, but it does not define who I am.  I have another name that carries a much bigger and much deeper meaning.

It’s your name too, or at least it can be, if you choose to live your life in Christ and in the victory He won for you, for me, for everyone.  It’s ours to accept.

When we live ‘in Christ’ (that is to hand our lives over to Him, giving Him everything we are so that He can give us all He is), what we have done in the past no longer matters.  All shame, all regret, all {insert your word here} was taken away at the cross.  Instead, it is replaced with freedom and victory and so much more because we can rise up and say “hello, my name is Child of the One True King…”

(The story behind this song, combined with the song and a short message from the songwriter Matthew West, can be found here: